She still sounds sick. My mom only accused me of being bipolar when she was off her medication… She seemed to think she knew everything about me and clearly see into my mind and that she was somehow a psychiatrist due to her illness. Your mother’s accusatory tone sounds like that too… She deffers her bad parenting skills on to you by using what fragments she can remember (all negative) in order to put on some kind of vengeful “you’re no holier than I” b.s.As for Fluffiness? Absolutely unnecessary if this is what helps you. I’ve followed you for YEARS and all I’ve ever seen is a wonderful woman doing the best for her family. You’re awesome and lovely and kind and talented and GREAT! Your blog, your rules! I’ll always be reading.