First, I want to say I am giving you a giant internet hug right now. It sounds like you are way better off without her. She is a nasty bitch who has issues, and seriously, you are NOT at fault for her, her actions, and you owe her nothing. Let her leave everything to your sister.. if that saves the emotional abuse, it is so worth it!

I am so grateful that I have a good relationship with my parents. They are awesome, but my DH is not as lucky. Your mother sounds like she could be related to DH’s mom. The email threats, phone calls, nasty messages when her call isn’t immediately returned.. She lives in a fantasy land…

I can totally share my mom.. LOL