I must bitch for a second………as an AOL user I have grown to hate the “classic” age/sex/location. Now, for them to even IM me they MUST have read my profile. If they read it they WOULD KNOW my age, my sex, my location the fact I am engaged and the fact I don’t particulary INVITE stupid IMs!! I typically respond with “Yes??” and usually the reply is “why are you so rude” after I ask what their purpose for IMing me was….ugh it just pisses me off today!