I’m a single mom of a gorgeous 9 month old daughter. I was also in a verbally/mentally/emotionally abusive relationship when I became pregnant, and I left the bastard in order to give my child a fighting chance in life. Since my daughter’s birth, I have also struggled with the loss of identity. I feel like I’m in between lives right now. Your post makes me realize I’m not alone (althought I know this, it doesn’t seem to sink in until I read someone else’s words). I enjoy your blog, and feel a connection to much of what you write. Thank you.